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I have a couple of young children.  On both occasions, my wife lost her British Airways status when she went on maternity leave.  I have never been very happy with this state of affairs.

It is especially frustrating with BA because of the fixed tier point years.  If you take a year off to have a baby which straddles part of one tier point year and part of another, it is even worse.

Imagine your tier point year is the calendar year and you go on maternity leave in June.  You didn’t earn enough tier points before you went to retain status.  However, when you return the following June, you don’t have enough time before December to earn it back!  It could take you almost 18 months after you go back to work to get back to your old status level.

Luckily, some airlines are more in touch with the modern world.

Virgin 787

Virgin Atlantic has an impressive policy for new mothers AND fathers.

The Virgin website only alludes to this briefly.  I asked Virgin for clarification and this is what they told me:

Due to maternity and paternity leave, Gold and Silver Flying Club members can apply for an extension to retain their Gold or Silver status … The member needs to put the request in writing to Customer Services team (customer.services@fly.virgin.com) and provide documentary proof of the maternity/paternity absence. Customer Services can give the member a list of accepted documents.

This is certainly an improvement on the British Airways approach.

If you have Virgin Gold status, there is an additional reason for requesting a status extension if you take maternity leave.  Virgin Atlantic offers Lifetime Gold status to its most loyal flyers – the details are here.  Lifetime Gold with Virgin Atlantic requires 10 consecutive years of Gold status, so missing a year due to having a child could have long-term consequences.

I thought that Lufthansa also had a similar policy, although I have been unable to track down any details – perhaps I am mistaken or perhaps they stopped it.


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Comments (67)

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  • oyster says:

    I can’t think why anyone would want to have the frequent travel associated with top tier status when they have a new child.
    As a new-ish father myself to a 23 and 3 month old, I don’t want to travel much (unless they come with me!)

  • Sam wardill says:

    Shame on you British Airways!

  • Adam W says:

    Such an extension exclusively for new parents seems rather unfair to me. If they are entitled to such an extension, then perhaps so should those who have been made redundant, taken a sabbatical, hospitalised or imprisoned. Slippery slope this one!

    • Polly says:

      Imprisoned no! But I agree the other options yes? Def worth a word raffles to BA , interesting idea….

      • John says:

        Come on, a lot of politicians get accustomed to flying first class/lounge hopping. It’s only right that they regain status as soon as they’re released from prison.

    • Paul says:

      Why? It is not different to parental leave and child allowance, only those who have children or who adopted, foster etc are entitled.

      As an employer I was surprised to find that I had to pay for my staff’s Child care vouchers at £243 a month when on mat or pat leave This is a system which allows them to pay for childcare direct from salary but tax free. When they go on maternity or paternity leave now this benefit cannot be withdrawn and is paid for by the employer.

      Tough on small businesses but money well spent to ensure staff return to work and do so having procured high quality affordable childcare allowing them to focus on work and careers.

      • Adam W says:

        “Why? It is not different to parental leave and child allowance, only those who have children or who adopted, foster etc are entitled.”

        It is very much different to parental leave and child allowance for two incredibly obvious reasons! Firstly, only those with children need parental leave and child allowance whilst lots of people, besides parents, have their travel restricted and would be equally entitled to an extension. Secondly, employers do not pay parental leave or child allowance to customers!

        I’m just saying that if extensions are to be granted then it should apply to all circumstances that would limit travel for a prolonged period rather than just those that make the decision to start a family. It seems inconsiderate and selfish to me for one group to expect themselves to be the only ones worthy of such an extension.

        • Paul L says:

          I agree Adam. I don’t think parents should be given special treatment like this.

          A fairer system would be to have a temporary 6 month extension to the tier point year that any member can use (regardless of the reason). Obviously there would be limits (max 1 use per 5 years for example). They could even freeze your account during that time so you can’t use your status or points.

          To be honest though I don’t have a problem with the current system.

      • JohnG says:

        Because having children doesn’t make you more deserving of benefits like this. If BA brought in a policy of allowing status ‘holds’ then it should be available to all, not just artificially restricted to those who decide to have children.

      • Charlie says:

        I think it’s to do with the employee’s right to continue receiving benefits whilst on maternity/paternity leave, and at the same time not being allowed to deduct the cost of the benefits using salary sacrifice from statutory maternity/paternity pay.

        • Rupert says:

          Depends on the employee’s contract – if on salary deduction then the employer would not have to continue paying for them.

          If it’s a standard benefit for anyone who requests them – which would be unusual (such as annual leave) then the employer would be liable.

          (I’m not a lawyer but run a business )

        • RICO says:

          It is not a benefit if they are paying for the vouchers.

          They should be able to continue receiving the vouchers if they pay.

    • will says:

      Unfortunately these people don’t form a big enough mob to lobby for special rights by using a discriminatory stance.

      If it’s fair to give parents a special deal in life, then surely people who have chosen not to have children should at some point be able to claim the same ‘right’ too – for sake of equality among people.

      • Fenny says:

        Most people, whether they have children or not (and it’s not always a choice), have families and there are times when it’s necessary to take time off to be with them. When Ma was still teaching, the only time I could spend time off with her was during school holidays.

        • Adam W says:

          Having a child is not always a choice? Seriously? In a society with contraception, morning after pills and abortion – It is a choice!

          • Fenny says:

            Not having children is not always a choice. Don’t be so judgemental!

          • avioscollector says:

            In what circumstances is having a child not a choice. A raped catholic, yes, but I’m struggling to think of any other reason?

            People choose to have children for their own reasons, saying there was not a choice only highlights their own ignorance.

            As for the subject of this post, it sounds like Raffles is having a whine about his own circumstances. Perhaps his next child can be via surrogate so his wife can retain her status with BA.

  • Ian says:

    As you’re able to fly as soon as you’ve had your baby, and it’s only the last couple of months of pregnancy where there’s any trouble flying, then it’s your personal choice not to fly while on maternity leave, nothing to do with BA. Your problem seems to be with your employer – perhaps ask them to supply a Priority Pass card. Obviously not happy that you might have to earn status with your *own* money.

  • Paul says:

    BA have been anti family for decades this is nothing new. It stems from their own bizarre rule that staff cannot travel in F if they are travelling with their children under the age of 12. This even applied to the CEO. It is unique among airlines in doing this and send a message to their staff that kids are troublesome and must be kept out of F. Consequently you can buy F and do so for years but you will not be upgraded to F if you have kids in the party, no matter the CIV score.

    The lack of flexibility in allowing at least one realignment the membership year has been a long standing irritant. My kids year end in December and mine in April. The upshot of this has been my 3 year old guesting me into Galleries North and my 5 year daughter guesting in her mother. Stupid stupid stupid.
    ….but they are not alone, the other story today was the opening of the new priority club lounge in Stansted and the ban on children under 6. This should simply be illegal. It should not be possible for any one offering a public service be it transport or restaurants or anywhere else, to ban children on the basis of their age. By all means, throw out any family whose children do not bah or who they fail to control, but such blankets bans would not be acceptable for any other group of people in any other walk of life.

    • Worzel says:

      Paul (7:46 am) 1st para:

      Well done BA in upholding the rule-even for the CEO! I’ve never flown in 1st but should I do so and there was a kid(s) under 12, I imagine I’d be irritated(at some stage) on my redemption flight-I’d be even less understanding if I was paying full price!!

    • JohnG says:

      Why should it be illegal for an airport lounge to have a minimum age policy? It’d be great if they didn’t need to have one, however my understanding is that having a policy of allowing entry on the basis they will kick out noisy/misbehaving children doesn’t work in practice, especially if the threshold is set to a level that it is unreasonable to expect very young children to achieve.

      A lounge only puts a minimum age policy in place because they believe more of their customers want it than don’t. I don’t see why parents feel so entitled to have their wants (to sit in a lounge with a small child) prioritized over other peoples (to sit in a quiet lounge without disruption).

      • nerd. says:

        Yes – what he said ^

        Parents already get discounted seat prices for children, despite the fact they’re occupying the same seat as a potentially full-fare paying adult would be. How much more do parents want?

        • TimS says:

          To some degree, the discounted child fares are based on the reduced fuel requirement for transporting said minor.

          Using your logic, should infants using bassinets (or as lap children) be transported for free as the bassinet (or parent’s lap!) COULDN’T be used by another full fare paying adult?

          Personally, I actually don’t have a problem with the age restriction on lounge access…and yes I do have kids under 6 so would be impacted by the rule!

          • RICO says:

            Infants (under 2) are normally transported for free or a nominal ticketing charge as long as their parents dont book them a seat.

            Children above 2 must have their own seat. A few companies do give some kind of discount.

    • @mkcol says:

      An airport lounge is not a public service. Like any other pay to enter facility, it is entirely up to the provider who they choose to allow to enter.

    • sinizter says:

      Being a parent of young children, being affected by the above policy, I still disagree with you.

    • RICO says:

      Yes I demand to be let into this strip club says my 5 year old nephew.

    • C77 says:

      And I applaud BA for enforcing their own policy and not being afraid to do so. You Virgin also have a similar age restriction on staff travelling in Upper. I would say be grateful that BA allow you to purchase child and infant fares in F which a lot of airlines don’t (EK and MH are two that spring to mind). Not everybody who flies in F does so in anticipation of that some oblivious family take over the cabin and ruin the experience for everyone else who is sat there. Unintentionally or otherwise. It also secures maximum revenue for those limited seats. Your your argument regarding lounge policies being brandished illegal just falls on deaf ears here I’m afraid. An aircraft is private property of the airline operating it and they ultimately get to set the rules as to who’s allowed on or in aspects of its service. Why do people who are on the wrong side of a rule choose to argue that they are exempt or different instead of just realising they aren’t wanted and choose to take their business elsewhere? For every 1 who protests they are wrong for not allowing their Tarquin and Philomena into the lounge, I guarantee there are 10 others glad the lounge operator didn’t.

  • Gordon says:

    Business lounge in belfast bans under 12s and its the only lounge! So when Virgin launch their flights to orlando this year anyone buying upper class with kids wont be allowed in a lounge. Great start to the trip. I wonder if Virgin knows this!

    • nerd. says:

      I can’t imagine they’re expecting too many folk to be buying upper class, from Belfast, with kids in tow.

      If there is anyone paying for an upper class ticket I suspect they’ll be glad to get away from the the chaos of other people’s little angels.

  • JK says:

    Virgin Australia also do the “baby leave pause” and it is well received as a difference from Qantas.

  • flyingbee says:

    For both of my relatively short maternity leaves (6 or 7 months) BA renewed my status without meeting the TP threshold by a small number of TPs after I asked. I have held status for several years and in both cases my flight activity went from regular to nothing for a few months so it was clear that I was on maternity leave.

    For most of my membership year for my last baby I was either flying quite heavily pregnant, unable to fly due to late pregnancy, caring for a newborn or waiting for the baby’s passport to arrive somewhat limiting my personal and business travel!

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